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Mary Robinson Founded Good Grief

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maryrobinsonGarden State Woman caught up recently with Mary Robinson, Founder of Good Grief, to learn more about how the organization provides education, advocacy and year-round peer support group programs for grieving children, teens and adults. 

How long have you been working with Good Grief?

 Since our founding in December 2003.

 Have you worked in the non profit sector before? If so, in what capacity?

 While getting Good Grief up and running I worked as the Director of External Affairs and Development for Homefirst, Inc. and from 2000-2004 I was the Executive Director for the New Jersey State Chapter of Rainbows, Inc.  From 1997 – 2000 I ran a consulting company, Robinson & Associates providing grant writing, development consulting and database development for nonprofits.

 Have you ever worked in the for-profit world? If so, doing what?

Yes, from 1984 – 1997.  First in IT as a Systems Analyst and Information Engineer for Prudential Insurance Company from 1984 – 1992 and then as Manager of Local Initiatives for Prudential Financial from 1992-1997.

Why have you decided to develop your current career in the non profit world?

 I wanted to work more hands on in the community.  Prudential gave me so many opportunities and helped me develop a wide range of skills from technical to management to training and finally to understanding and developing partnerships between the corporate world and the nonprofit world through employee volunteerism.

Do you recommend other talented women consider focusing their careers in the non-profit sector? What are the pluses and minuses? 

I do recommend the nonprofit sector to women for a lot of reasons.  What I love about it is the opportunity to be creative, take risks, getting to see firsthand the difference you make and the fulfillment that comes with that 

What is your educational background? 

Bachelors Degree in English from the University of Delaware and a Certificate in Computer Technology from Chubb Institute School of Computer Technology. I am a member of the Association for Death Education and Counseling and am currently taking courses towards a Masters in Psychoanalysis at the Academy of Clinical and Applied Psychoanalysis in Livingston, NJ and am in the process of obtaining a Certification in Thanatology which is the study of death and dying 

What is the mission of Good Grief?  How old is the organization? By whom, why and how was it launched? 

Good Grief’s mission is to normalize grief in our society and create resilient communities where children and teens coping with loss grow up emotionally healthy and able to lead meaningful and productive lives.  Good Grief provides education, advocacy and year-round peer support group programs for grieving children, teens and adults.Good Grief accomplishes its mission through the Good Grief Center for families coping with loss due to death and through a transformative series of workshops designed to help adults gain the skills, tools and wisdom needed to be companions and mentors in the lives of grieving children and teens. 

I was 14 when my father died of cancer in 1974 and the impact of his loss on me and my family is why I got involved in the field of children’s grief support initially as a volunteer in 1997.  My personal experience made me determined to ensure that some day all grieving children and teens would have the support they needed from their community when coping with any type of painful loss.   I envisioned a place where children and their parents could go all year round to get support and healing and find out they were not alone. 

We were incorporated in December 2003 by a small group of individuals including myself who were concerned about the lack of on-going, effective grief support services and grief education in New Jersey.  In the spring of 2004 we held a three-day Future Search™ Conference with over 60 grief professionals, teachers, parents, children, nonprofit leaders and concerned community members to create a future vision and actions for helping children and families in grief.   The group focused on the current needs and gaps in service in New Jersey, and what was working and not working in the field of grief support.  It is from that conference, the mission and the vision of Good Grief were created.   The conference validated that there was a great need for this type of service along with the need for more education about grief and loss in general.

We launched our Conversations on Grief ™ workshops in 2006 and opened our Center in 2007 

How big of a foot print does the organization have geographically? How many children has it served? 

We have 245 participants currently enrolled from 66 towns throughout New Jersey.  Some of our families travel from over an hour away to get to us.  92 facilitators from 43 towns have been trained since we opened our doors and 57 adult volunteers from 29 towns currently facilitate our peer support groups.  We have 16 families on our waitlist.  Since opening our center doors in September 2007 we have served 166 families and 433 participants and have delivered our workshops and presentations on grief to over 4000 adults and teenagers. 

How do the children come to you for support? Or, how do you find children needing support? 

Children and families are referred to Good Grief through guidance counselors, social workers and teachers, hospitals and hospices, funeral homes and clergy, and simply through word of mouth and the family’s support system of friends, neighbors and members of the community. 

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